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I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.
I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.
Being gay, if I was cursed to appear anywhere near my chronological age, I'd probably end it here and now r46 and you will be 45 on your birthday- It changes nothing and when you are 55 you will look 45-.
The problem, though, is that such guys are often shy - practically homebodies - so they're hard to find.
In my opinion, what's attractive in a guy in his 40s or older is that he's more likely to have his shit together, personally and professionally.
It gave me a real complex and induced a crippling shyness in me. I'm still really shy so I never let it go to my head or take it seriously. The flip side of your story is that nobody wants you.
Now I get hit on all the time by guys and girls in the 20s. A few times I've had girls take pictures of me on their phones while just walking down the street. Yes, there must be something wrong with everybody else, not you.[quote]Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex. I dated a younger guy who definitely felt that way.